Gorgeously Lovely Flawed: Adventures in AlleyLand

Deliciously insecure, tenacious, vibrant, and me

failedblackwoman:

I got paid today and I need to order my shirt but my Debit Card is across the room and the bra is off and I’m laying down. 

If there was a time for my mutant powers to activate this would be it. 

(via wingnutlady)

  • other people: wow what a perfect morning for a run
  • me: wow what a perfect morning to go the fuck back to sleep

thegoddamazon:

hellaeva:

gpoy gpoy gpoy gpoy gpoy gpoy gpoy gpoy

My entire life in college was this meme, tho.

Except the driving part. I rode my bike to school. It was only four miles from my apartment.

Grad school, man. Shit.

(Source: aaronpauled, via wingnutlady)

agentotter:

islandofmisfitt0ys:

deviantfemme:

pratfall:

how to dress for your shape: are you human-shaped? play up your natural sex appeal by wearing whatever the fuck you want

Life Tip: As the weather gets warmer, continue to wear whatever the fuck you want. Flaunt everything or keep it cool under cover. Dress to make yourself feel rad.

how to get a bikini body:
put a bikini on your body

Want to look great naked? Take all your clothes off.

(via ifidontjust)

When families reject hierarchical thinking about gender, they provide an important site of resistance to the dominant social discourse .
Robust research findings indicate that when families encourage self-assertion, permit disagreement, and respect others’ views, adolescent identity exploration is greater than in families where individuality is not encouraged.

—Libby and Thomas Blume, “Toward a Dialectical Model of Family Gender Discourse: Body, Identity, and Sexuality. (via delarealidadd)

(via theangryblackwoman)

On Periods: Let’s put this shit to bed right now: Women don’t lose their minds when they have period-related irritability. It doesn’t lower their ability to reason; it lowers their patience and, hence, tolerance for bullshit. If an issue comes up a lot during “that time of the month,” that doesn’t mean she only cares about it once a month; it means she’s bothered by it all the time and lacks the capacity, once a month, to shove it down and bury it beneath six gulps of willful silence.